Tasneem wrote:
Hello
Fetish :
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My question to you, Sarah, do you have a recommendation for a romance novel that Arabs hold up as a "classic" in their culture about the natural affection (in contrast to the sex urge, of course) between men and women that Jesus observed was key to the happy family life...? I'm not being sarcastic or ironic - I'm asking sincerely...
Yes sure, there is a
very famous classical love story told in the muslim world, which was also a very well known story told all over the world hundreds of years ago, because this story was translated from Arabic to Latin, it was said to have also inspired William Shakespeare to write Romeo and Juliette. It's called "The Legend of Leyli and Majnun" (real name Qays) .... Majnun translates from Arabic - "madman", Qays was driven mad by his unrequited love for Layla, and hers for him. I'm not quite sure of it's origins, or who first told the story, i know it's oral traditions originate from the 6th century Umayyad Dynasty - bedouins (also known as the Banu Abd-Shams) that prophet Muhammad descended from. This love story is so revered by the Arabs, that some of its 6th century poetry is actually displayed on the walls inside the Kaba building itself in Mecca...
The story was passed on orally, for a few hundred years, until a famous,12th century persian poet named
Nezamifrom Azerbaijan, decided to write his version of this story. This story has been told many times, apparently his is the best..
The story goes....Qays, a bedouin from the Bani Aamir tribe in arabia falls in love with Layla from another feuding tribe. He soon begins creating poems about his love for her, mentioning her name often. When he asks for her hand in marriage her father refused as this would mean a scandal for Layla according to Arab traditions. Soon after, Layla married another man. When Qays heard of her marriage he fled the tribe camp and wandered in the surrounding deserts, living with the wild animals, driven mad by his love for Layla. Layla eventually dies, or in some versions, he dies first. He had carved poems, known in arabic as 'virgin love' poems...on a rock near her grave, (actually, i'm not sure if it is a true story)
Here are some of Nizami's beautiful poems from Qays to Layla,
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The future is veiled from our eyes. The threads of each man's fate extend well beyond the boundaries of the visible world. Where they lead, we cannot see. Who can say that today's key will not be tomorrow's lock, or today's lock not tomorrow's key?
Dearest heart, if I had not given my soul to you, it would have been better to give it up for good, to lose it forever. I am burning in love's fire; I am drowning in the tears of my sorrow. . . I am the moth that flies through the night to flutter around the candle flame. O invisible candle of my soul, do not torture me as I encircle you! You have bewitched me, you have robbed me of my sleep, my reason, my very being.
Time passes, but true love remains. The life of this world is, for the most part, nothing but a succession of illusions and deceptions. But true love is real, and the flames which fuel it burn forever, without beginning or end.
Every breeze that blows
brings your scent to me;
Every bird that sings
calls out your name to me;
Every dream that appears
brings your face to me;
Every glance at your face
has left its trace with me.
I am yours, I am yours,
whether near or far;
Your grief is mine, all mine,
wherever you are.
Oh yeah, even Eric Claptons "Layla" was inspired by this love story and many western operas and Russian ballets...
Lets not forget the love doc himself, Rumi too...
I agree with you also Fetish, we seem to have lost the culture of Romance in the west, i blame the free love and all 70's hippies...

And todays black rap culture, with their degrading portrayal of us women folk has pretty much finished it off...
Love to all...
Sarah
Hi Sarah,
Thanks for the information. Considering that Occidental civilization all originated from the same source, I'm not surprised that the same love story is told throughout the various cultures. It even made it to Broadway...probably MOST of these timeless classics were written by Anonymous - look how Amadon and his 143 friends were completely written out of history!
As you note, these romance stories are ancient.
I watched a comic on TV - she has her own show called The Sarah Silverman Show - and I would not lay the blame for the complete lack of a modern romantic genre just on the doorstep of rap culture. To understand the "music" business in the USA today you have to find the origins - music of the 1960s - and how Abby Hoffman was thrown off the stage at Woodstock.
I agree - Gen X is COMPLETELY different from the hippies- lots of marketing "psychology" in "astrology" books and here's what one book has to say about the Generation born between 1963-1969 - "...they have the power to blow everything and everybody to pieces....".
My HUMAN observation of that group is their utter lack of appreciation for BEAUTY - spiritual beauty. And their unfortunate wide-spread brain disorder dubbed - "compulsive syndrome".
At any rate - the "hippies" kept growing as environmentalists. And the non-hippies of that generation have their paws on the levers of "government" or utter lack thereof. With the assistance of Gen X politicians, the end-times Phaisees have attacked Habeus Corpus. Tyranny is their "government" - everything they attack in the "government" has to do with the PERSONAL rights to LOVE one another.
Think about it - that whole left-behind series of books flooding all of Occidental culture - what could be a greater perfidy than to use "religion" to get "good" people to wait to be "raptured" - removed off the planet through death...instead of living "aggressively good"?
Idealists need to wake up to their antics. When Bush noted at the UN that the "american people" were very concerned with what was going on with the protests of the Burmese Budhist Monks (and everyone went "huh?" since the american people had no clue), it was CODE for the rest of the "internationalists" to clamp down (gun down and incarcerate) the protestors - which the military hunta did the very next day.
Religious language has the opposite meaning to those who utter it in public these days...it's CODE for the war against the would be "Mandelas" - code against GOVERNMENT....
Yes, indeedy, the lack of romantic novels is not a frivolous observation in the final analysis - is it?
Again, thanks for the time you spent on your beautiful romantic post! I do appreciate the education - sincerely.
Read Paper 52 for yourself and don't worry about being "rude" to Joer - he's a big boy, I'm sure he can take a little conversation about his interpretation.
Jesus is NOT naive about the "politics" of any situation. He's not a monkey to come back on the command of the Pharisees.
Kind regards,
the Fet
